A submissive learns

If a submissive lives with criticism, she learns to condemn.
If a submissive lives with hostility, she learns to fight.
If a submissive lives with ridicule, she learns to be shy.
 If a submissive lives with shame, she learns to feel guilty.
If a submissive lives with tolerance, she learns to be patient.
If a submissive lives with encouragement, she learns confidence.
If a submissive lives with praise, she learns to appreciate.
If a submissive lives with fairness, she learns justice.
If a submissive lives with security, she learns to have faith.
If a submissive lives with approval, she learns to like herself.
If a submissive lives with acceptance and friendship, she learns to find love in the world.